Call me a masochist.
But I find NTJs to be... extremely appealing.
Precisely because they are foreign to me.
See, for a long time, I thought I wanted a perfect soulmate. Someone who would just instantly get me. And if he wasn't perfect.. I would go that extra mile and -make- the relationship perfect. I knew I would intuitively adapt to them down to the slightest detail.
... Things kind of don't work that way.
And when I realized this, I felt really cheated and upset, like telling a kid that Santa doesn't exist. [Needed therapy, because God knows I used every hypothesis to keep the soulmate idea alive. (I still believe, but shh) ]
The problem in relationships is my natural paranoia. (This is what NTJs are so good at cutting through) If someone gives me fluffy love too fast or too much of it, there will come a time where I'll eventually mistrust it.
So I considered the other option, what if someone came to you and said:
"You're stupid, you're ugly and rotten. But I like you." No sweet talk, no dances... because we can spot these emotional games a mile away.
-Instant love-
Their tendency for clarity is kind of amusing and weird. But they do not exist in a single dimension like say...STs. Which makes them far far more interesting.
Innocent, in a way.
The trick, from my experience, is to realize they don't see the "feeling" dimensions very well. And for all their impressive and efficient personas, they are vulnerable to nearly all of my emotional games.
It's like the playing field is wide open. Like I'm free to try anything.
I've met very few of them. But they certainly caused an impact on me.
Then again, I tend to over-idealize them. Chances are I won't mean what I just typed above in a week.