Pseudo
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- Jul 2, 2012
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- MBTI Type
- INTP
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- so/sx
For those of you dominant thinking types who have close relations with dominant feeler types do you feel like you ever don't have enough to satisfy their emotional needs? Like they not only want you to be concerned with their feeling but are also so concerned with you feelings, even when it you'd prefer to just ignore your feelings entirely? Or they attribute great meaning momentary feelings you would just shrug off or designate unimportant. Do you think Fe people attempt to "get a rise out of you", not maliciously but because they assume that you are hiding your feelings. Do you experience the problem of them interpreting your attempts to remain calm and stifle frustrations (thinking that not showing anger to them is kinder) as an unwillingness to engage?
Basically how do you resolve feelings between people who think attention to subject human feelings solve problems and people who feel subjective human feelings cause problems?
Basically how do you resolve feelings between people who think attention to subject human feelings solve problems and people who feel subjective human feelings cause problems?