I think it's important to understand that your child will naturally be better than you (and her father) at some things. For instance, I was raised by an ESTJ step-father and ESFJ mother (only interacted with my INTJ father on occasion and it felt like a great, exhilirating release to spend time with him - I didn't want to leave and go back to sensor-ville). But, my point is that there were things at the age of 10 (and 12, and 15) that I just knew from reading, studying, pondering, experimenting, etc. - things that my parents had probably never even given thought to in their entire lives. That was my strenght - I knew things, I learned, I gained information. So, when I would discuss these things with them, they would argue with me and stifle my creativity and even make me feel like these things didn't matter in real life and only "weird" people spend so much time thinking about these things. They are about as "S" as you can get and I am very much an "N", so the gap was huge.
Looking back (now that I'm an adult), I understand fully that parents are the adults and they actually do know best. But, if your daughter is already organizing kids on the playground, maybe you should anticipate the fact that she might blow you out of the water (and just about everyone else in society, for the most part) at that particular skill set. You might at some point begin to dislike that part of her personality as she gets older (maybe it rubs you the wrong way, maybe it feels like she doesn't care about your way of doing things, etc.), but really try to understand that this is the area of her personality that is going to allow her to stand out and thrive in life. Nurture it. That doesn't mean she gets to be your boss or not respect you, but just subtly respect that and allow it to flourish.
Also, I think parents can also hurt children by telling them "You are just the SMARTEST, BEST ORGANIZER around. You're my little organizer." Or, "you are just the best student! So smart at school!" Positive feedback is great, but in my case (and other people I know), if you only heard positive feedback in one or two areas of life, then you can easily grow up thinking that you will only be successful by using those attributes. I grew up thinking that I had to get my Ph.D. and had to do something in academia, because all I ever heard was how smart I was in the classroom and with books, but in every other area of life, I was a lame-tard. But, it took my 10 years of adulthood to realize, I don't really give a hoot about academia. Am I capable of kicking butt in academia if I applied myself? Sure. Is it the thing I want to do in life? No.
So, find that balance. Know her strengths and her limitations as a person and allow them the strengths to flourish. But, let her know you love her for everything that she is, not just the things that she's really good at.