King sns
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- sp/sx
YLJ stance on jealousy is curious to me:
What say yee on the subject of jealousy in a romantic relationship?
Is it a negative thing, a positive thing?
Is it an indication of faltering self esteem or insecurity?
Does it show they truly care about you?
Does it show that they don't trust you to be faithful?
What does jealousy in a partner say to you?
Well, in my own case, I get jealous because of my own insecurities, (or if I have a reason to be.) I often assume jealousy in other people is the same thing, so would prefer someone who is not jealous. It shows trust when my partner is not jealous, and it also shows me that I have nothing to worry about. I feel that if they are not jealous, then they are secure with the relationship, and secure with themselves, and likely that they are also faithful to me because of these things. I like a reasonable amount of jealousy- if some guy is being overly flirtatious then I want my boyfriend to respond.