Kay but scary? like SCARY? heeee! Awesome
What you mean you don't understand NTJ's being seen as scary?
Actually, I'm not afraid of them. Not scary in that sense... more like thrilled than scared. But then, that's my usual response to things that other people see as scary... rather than want to avoid them, they fascinate me and draw me. They're complex creatures, lots of variables and unknowns, just what I need to get my Ne-xercise
And in return, it would seem that the fact that I'm the one sitting on their desk, taking a bite out of their pie while they're ranting and everyone else is either hiding or stuttering or shrivelling under the gaze of death, so that when they turn to me and say "WELL??" and I say "I think this pie could use some more salt", the combined sense of infuriation and amazement seems to cause a similar effect in the NTJ's in my life to that which they have on me when the opposite applies. I mean when everyone else is laughing and playing with me and I turn to them and they're standing with arms crossed and one raised eyebrow, and I say "Well?" and they shrug enigmatically and walk off... :steam: Come baaaaack!!!
It's the particular way in which the INTJ walks off, as opposed to the INFJ... the INFJ always has that edge of disapproval that irritates me, whilst INTJ is smiling to themselves, amused at I-don't-know-what-but-I-intend-to-have-damn-good-fun-finding-out... ahhhhh
That feeling that you sorta don't know which one you want more: them to go away or them to stay, stay, stay! To kill each other or screw each other senseless... hahahahaha... awesome!
I don't personally get so much fun from INFJ's... I find they get hurt too easily and don't really get the whole point of 'the game', they don't enjoy it but see it as something bad that I'm doing to abuse or upset them or something.