Billy
Crazy Diamond
- Joined
- Oct 20, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- INFJ
We can be in people's faces but much of what you said about INFJs can be applied to ENFJs. We can talk our butts off but much of what we say is not very personal... we also hold a lot of info back.
Maybe INFJs have a more subdued, calming presence while ENFJs seem to have more transparent, intense energy? The ENFJs I know can bore a hole into you w/ their stares because of their huge intensity. Fe+Ni stares are downright frightening.
I've been on the other side of that stare. I dunno, the ENFJs I know just tend to be really kind of, I dont want to say it insultingly but pushy. All up in my business, trying to figure my ish out... and it feels kind of like being invaded sometimes.
I will say however that my best friend is an ENFJ and I rely on his pushy, judgmental Fe more then anything when I don't know the answer to what I am feeling myself, which sadly is quite often. Hes the only one who can really pry information out of me though which is cool, I share the msot with him, so dont think I am putting ENFJs down. Totally not.