poppy
triple nerd score
- Joined
- May 30, 2009
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- 2,215
- MBTI Type
- intj
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Ah, yep. My INTJ friend is so deep and caring, but he only shows it with certain people. I felt like we had to get past this wall for us to be friends. I used to friend stalk him relentlessly because he wouldn't just be my friend like a normal person. He would be all cold and aloof, but it just made me try harder. I used to bug the shit out of him. Invite myself to do things with him. But, now we've been friends for like 11 years and he is one of my two best friends in the entire world. He is very wise and he seems to appreciate me in spite of and even because of my craziness.
All people are interesting, once you get past the first couple of masks we all wear.
This is something I've only learned very recently.