Lily flower
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I am trying to figure out if my husband is an ESFJ or an ENFJ. When he takes the online tests, he always comes out ESFJ, but when I read the descriptions in books, he always sounds like an ENFJ. His MO is compassion/charm. Everyone tells him their deepest secrets within hours of knowing him. He & I click amazingly well, (I'm an INFJ) but I am obviously way more N than he is - he is much more grounded than I am.
What is the best way to tell the difference?
What is the best way to tell the difference?