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I really can't answer that for you. The status thing baffles me. But I guess that could be Fe overload, I don't know...
Yes, but taking pride in something doesn't automatically equate to insecurity and this is where I'm having a hard time understanding what you are getting at. If I offend your Fi sense of value, it doesn't mean that your are insecure about it.
So they are snarky with each other... it just seems like these 2 people are competitive with each other, which has nothing to do with type or even pride, but it manifests itself in the functions of our type.
(and please, stop apologizing - we love you, puppy! er, sorry: monster...)
Maybe we mistake pride/passion for insecurity? Perhaps the wrong label is being used. To offend my Fi you would have to hurt someone else, and then I would feel anger at you, not insecurity. So we see the reaction of offended and then assume they were insecure in the first place..?
Are entps more prone to being competitive? How do I reorient them to reduce these entanglements?
(I have Fi , I am gentically programmed to apologize. yap yap!)