jenocyde
half mystic, half skeksis
- Joined
- Jan 2, 2009
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- ENTP
- Enneagram
- 7w8
Freedom, potentially. The need to NOT have to deal with subtext in all future postings on any topic.
Indeed. The trouble is I am very unsure what is real. What, for example, is the truth of any interactions that have played out in other threads since this one? Do I need a defensive posture when posting? Will I be arguing the overt case of whichever topic, or dealing with some unresolved hidden forces?
And what to do? Say sorry? For what? Being the unassuming magnetic ball of attraction I so obviously am? People can't control themselves around me.
Taking responsibility for the feelings of others has a limit, and I would assume it is marked at the point where they no longer take responsibility for their own.
I wasn't suggesting that you take responsibility for anyone's feelings, only your own part in it. If you are truly an innocent bystander, then I can understand your confusion - but I don't think you really believe that, do you?
Either way, there is an ignore function on this site if you feel so threatened and scared of your future posts and their implications to her. But posts like the one above were done directly to antagonize her or communicate with her, and you know it.
I don't care what you do. I really don't. I was just trying to be helpful because you seem nice enough and I care for her deeply, and she seems to be hurting. But if you don't think that you had anything to do with any of this, and all of this was the imagination and ranting of a crazy woman, then I feel for you and I urge you again to stop riling her up.
I guess I'm done here. Good luck with everything.