INTP
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Actually, this doesn't apply..at least not when I go up to them. Coz I make it a point to try and leave within 5 minutes. It is a natural response. That constant 'annoyance' makes me think Im taking up their time and I don't stay where Im not wanted usually, so I leave. What Ive found is that they'll stop you immediately if they want you to stay, in a very crystal clear way. I guess thats that dominant demeanor that Meta was talking about, but they're very much clear in what they want from you. Which is a relief, compared to some other types. Usually, they don't do social etiquette if they feel they don't have to. And for some reason, they don't feel they have to with me
It makes communication a hell of a lot more efficient and easy. And it soothes me. It makes it so that I don't have to worry about social cues I might be missing. I know they'll tell me if they aren't happy as well as how to make them happy. And I know that i don't have to wrap things in with a pretty pink bow if I don't want to. They are usually more than relieved that Im equally blunt back in my needs.
but you know, the deal is that the showing of annoyance isnt constant. the INTJ will only show it at times(or maybe there are exceptions amongst INTJs regarding to this too), hoping that the other person takes the hint, but what this actually does is just that it makes the other person think "shit, i just made a wrong move, i gotta change my tactics and/or try harder", its a basic pick up artist technique, which the INTJs do naturally, even if they arent aware of pua shit. i have witnessed this happening between INTJ and ENFP, naturally it ended up the ENFP raping the INTJ and INTJ blaming me about it . i was just trying to make him to either move away or towards, when he stood still confusing the ENFP and he didnt understand what he was doing, and well, he stood still for too long and the ENFP got her way with him . saw this coming hours before it happened and tried to tell the INTJ that he should move, but naturally if you give them advice, they do the opposite. i havent seen an INTJ who doesent have really high social etiquette with girls(dont be annoying towards girls, treat them nicely, even if you arent interested etc).
ps. this social dominance of INTJ thing that metamorphosis mentioned didnt happen in this situation i mentioned.