I recently got to know someone intriguing. What I imagine a boy of summer grown up, no longer as lost, would be. Am wondering what his type is.
Got him to take the cognitive functions test, and it showed a blend of Ni, Ne, Ti, Te. But INTJ and ENTPs are much different in feel, and I should be able to tell them apart.
Yet I have difficulty with him as he exhibits traits that defies a part of each type.
Some notes:
Cognitive Process Level of Development (Preference, Skill and Frequency of Use)
extraverted Sensing (Se) *********************** (23.8)
limited use
introverted Sensing (Si) **************** (16.6)
limited use
extraverted Intuiting (Ne) ******************************************* (43.9)
excellent use
introverted Intuiting (Ni) **************************************** (41.9)
excellent use
extraverted Thinking (Te) *********************************** (35.1)
good use
introverted Thinking (Ti) ***************************************** (41.1)
excellent use
extraverted Feeling (Fe) ********************** (22.4)
limited use
introverted Feeling (Fi) ******************** (20.6)
limited use
So... Is this what a grown up ENTP, at peace with always being partly empty, feels like? Or is this an INTJ who has grown beyond the hyper sensitivity to normal human foibles? Or is he another type I'm blinded to?
What other questions would you need to have answered to address a best guess consensus of his type?
Edit: Would you also please give reasons for why you think he is which type.. thanks.
Got him to take the cognitive functions test, and it showed a blend of Ni, Ne, Ti, Te. But INTJ and ENTPs are much different in feel, and I should be able to tell them apart.
Yet I have difficulty with him as he exhibits traits that defies a part of each type.
Some notes:
- He is very self-contained, does not show much impatience, nor emotion.
- He can appear cold, yet he cares deeply about things. But the revelation comes in a few words, or a sentence. Never excessive emotionalities. I think you'd never see him lose his temper.
- A gentleman of the old school, in all senses of the word. Always courteous to ladies, never going into ugly fights/behaviours. Seems to understand boundaries and rules innately.
- A master wordsmith. Extremely well-read, can hold his own on any debate on personality, philosophy, religion, politics and sociology.
- An observer of human nature, but he does not judge them. Seems to enjoy poking them for reactions, though uncomfortable being poked himself.
- A quiet sense of humour and a sense of fun that can be sparked, but the play seems to come as a response vs an initiative, but it could be because I'm not in his inner circle.
- If irritated/frustrated, it shows via class sarcasm, for want of a better word. Does not suffer fools gladly, simply ignores most or take veiled stabs at them. But always with a smile.
- Has a presence that fills a room. Interaction with him feels like circling a banked fire. Something is simmering inside, but you do not really know what.
- And yes, he is good-looking, dresses well, takes care of his body and makes me feel, exquisitely female.
- I'm never able to rid myself of the feeling that he sees me as an amusing little chit. Like a birdie he'd let sit on his finger on a sunlit day, just to see if I'd fly or stay.
Cognitive Process Level of Development (Preference, Skill and Frequency of Use)
extraverted Sensing (Se) *********************** (23.8)
limited use
introverted Sensing (Si) **************** (16.6)
limited use
extraverted Intuiting (Ne) ******************************************* (43.9)
excellent use
introverted Intuiting (Ni) **************************************** (41.9)
excellent use
extraverted Thinking (Te) *********************************** (35.1)
good use
introverted Thinking (Ti) ***************************************** (41.1)
excellent use
extraverted Feeling (Fe) ********************** (22.4)
limited use
introverted Feeling (Fi) ******************** (20.6)
limited use
So... Is this what a grown up ENTP, at peace with always being partly empty, feels like? Or is this an INTJ who has grown beyond the hyper sensitivity to normal human foibles? Or is he another type I'm blinded to?
What other questions would you need to have answered to address a best guess consensus of his type?
Edit: Would you also please give reasons for why you think he is which type.. thanks.