burymecloser
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Gigi, I personally never like to see my ex-es move on. Even if I don't want to be with them any more, it hurts to realize I'm replaceable, so I think I understand where you're coming from to a degree. Is your reaction a little immature? Yeah, probably. But that doesn't make you a bad person, and I even think it's kind of a natural reaction to the end of a long relationship.
I would lay off the UGLY comments on the new gf, though. That comes off as bitter and mean, not hurt and confused. (Even if it's true.)
I would lay off the UGLY comments on the new gf, though. That comes off as bitter and mean, not hurt and confused. (Even if it's true.)
Are you asking her if she's a bitch? Writing, "obviously abuse is inexcusable," doesn't make it seem any less like you're implying it's her fault she got abused.Do you know why he regarded you as a "bitch"? Obviously abuse is inexcusable, but was there any validity to why he regarded you that way?