WieldingTheSword
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ENFJs, we are grossly underrepresented here! So I figured I'd direct a question just for us to answer. What is your favorite type for romantic relationships?
Yes there is some variety. I personally can't see myself attracted to another NF for very long or most F types. It would seem too familiar.
Being a female F can make or break a relationship with another F. My ENFP sister is way less emotionally charged than me and loves INFJs (also xNTJs).
I found a TP type ages ago, got married, had babies etc. and it was a perfect fit for me. I'm pretty sure the point of the thread was to ask us what our preference of romantic types were so I voted and commented accordingly based on personal experience. I'm not quite sure where you would consider my answering of this thread part of a societal dislike of F men. Just wanted to throw that possibility out there eh?Chris1207 said:Or maybe you're just a product of our society and you don't value feelings in men or at least the ones that are obvious. Just saying. Get out there and find yourself a TP
Male ENFJs may find dating another F easier because dating an F would make their own feelings freer to be expressed. I see this with my ENFJ friend Taco and his lovely INFP wife. Safety zone?
This seems true of Fe women. As Fi-dom, I am not that emotionally demonstrative, yet, I am sensitive, so the softness of an F guy is complementary. Fe-dom women seem to do well with a Ti guy to ground them a bit.
I agree with this :>
Since I'm someone that often wanders in and thinks something about the skewing of the polls based on population statistics, here's a fact for you all.
ENFJs are apparently the least common Intuiting type on this forum, and the only Intuiting type less common than any particular Sensing type (there are more ISTJs than ENFJs).
Okay, toodles.
Nothing against INFPs - but...really? They're winning the poll??? I guess all the people who complain about INFPs in the "hate" thread haven't found this poll yet.
Yes there is some variety. I personally can't see myself attracted to another NF for very long or most F types. It would seem too familiar.