MissxMassacre
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Hi everyone :hi:
One of my friends, an ENFP, needs some advice. She's in love with an ISFP for almost 5 years now. It all started with he was one of the three guys she liked. But now he's pretty much the one to her.
She's not very liked at school, and she doesn't like these people. So she's pretty much a loner because romance and silly stuff isn't liked at her school. Whenever someone says something bad about her ISFP, she loses her respect for that person and chooses not to talk to them anymore. Friends that say bad things about the ISFP in question get dumped for it. They usualy don't know why the ENFP is dumping them and then they assume that she probably has autism.
There's also this mutual hate between his friends and her, because she thinks they're boring and they don't like her because they barely know her or these who know her somewhat better think she's schizophrenic. Also he's one of the reasons why she doesn't befriend anyone at school.
When she was about to switch schools she didn't cry, but she feared she would never see him again. But later she heard it wasn't happening so she was pretty relieved. A half year later she heard he was crying in class, without anyone knew why, she had sleeping problems for a few weeks. He also causes her moodswings, if he smiles, her day is perfect. When she doesn't see him for a long time, she cries.
Once she also bought him a quite expensive watch, but it wasn't always the right time to give it him but she is planning to give it to him on his gradutation ceremony. That's how a package with a necklace and perfume to him was made, she delivered it in the middle of the night, not telling it's her. She did an action like this before, she stole his school library card and gave it back a few days after in the middle of the night as well because she felt guilty. Because he never greets her when she says hi but he just stares and she didn't want to him going to the school party as punishment.
He's almost on the point of gradutation and she has still one year, and she's completely hopeless on this situation. She would like to have help on this situation.
Thanks for reading.
One of my friends, an ENFP, needs some advice. She's in love with an ISFP for almost 5 years now. It all started with he was one of the three guys she liked. But now he's pretty much the one to her.
She's not very liked at school, and she doesn't like these people. So she's pretty much a loner because romance and silly stuff isn't liked at her school. Whenever someone says something bad about her ISFP, she loses her respect for that person and chooses not to talk to them anymore. Friends that say bad things about the ISFP in question get dumped for it. They usualy don't know why the ENFP is dumping them and then they assume that she probably has autism.
There's also this mutual hate between his friends and her, because she thinks they're boring and they don't like her because they barely know her or these who know her somewhat better think she's schizophrenic. Also he's one of the reasons why she doesn't befriend anyone at school.
When she was about to switch schools she didn't cry, but she feared she would never see him again. But later she heard it wasn't happening so she was pretty relieved. A half year later she heard he was crying in class, without anyone knew why, she had sleeping problems for a few weeks. He also causes her moodswings, if he smiles, her day is perfect. When she doesn't see him for a long time, she cries.
Once she also bought him a quite expensive watch, but it wasn't always the right time to give it him but she is planning to give it to him on his gradutation ceremony. That's how a package with a necklace and perfume to him was made, she delivered it in the middle of the night, not telling it's her. She did an action like this before, she stole his school library card and gave it back a few days after in the middle of the night as well because she felt guilty. Because he never greets her when she says hi but he just stares and she didn't want to him going to the school party as punishment.
He's almost on the point of gradutation and she has still one year, and she's completely hopeless on this situation. She would like to have help on this situation.
Thanks for reading.