Abcdenfp
Terpsichore
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- May 19, 2017
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- MBTI Type
- ENFP
- Enneagram
- 7W8
Hi
so here's the thing, I am a female enfp and I have been seeing two males that are so different and yet I felt like they were oddly similar, it's really the istps fault that I made them take the test because I just could not get inside his head/heart and with him I have the ability to be an emotional mess as he does the hot and cold thing which sends me into a spiral. however I enjoy every aspect of our time physically together we are silly, laugh and the chemistry ( I know , I know we all know) is crazy. We are in constant communication and he loves to share any activity he does with me and I love to listen, for someone that people say is quite and reserved he talks a lot and I for once, just enjoy listening watching his mind work.
But my Estp on the other hand is so loud and the life of the party when we go out people usually crowd around us, but in down time there is none of that silly cuddly fun stuff or sharing any parts of what makes him enjoy something. He needs my constant attention and can feel clingy at times which makes me with draw and miss my istp ughh.
What are the chances I would date the two spectrums of stp and I realize that I'm too feely for the two of them actually, I'm too sexually freaky for the estp and I'm too let's cuddle and talk with my istp ( I said to him let's lay like broccoli and share feelings.. his reply let's just lay like broccoli lol)
i know I need to really just dump them both but just wanted to share my experience as the more I've delved into personality types the more fascinating I've found The Whole experience.
so here's the thing, I am a female enfp and I have been seeing two males that are so different and yet I felt like they were oddly similar, it's really the istps fault that I made them take the test because I just could not get inside his head/heart and with him I have the ability to be an emotional mess as he does the hot and cold thing which sends me into a spiral. however I enjoy every aspect of our time physically together we are silly, laugh and the chemistry ( I know , I know we all know) is crazy. We are in constant communication and he loves to share any activity he does with me and I love to listen, for someone that people say is quite and reserved he talks a lot and I for once, just enjoy listening watching his mind work.
But my Estp on the other hand is so loud and the life of the party when we go out people usually crowd around us, but in down time there is none of that silly cuddly fun stuff or sharing any parts of what makes him enjoy something. He needs my constant attention and can feel clingy at times which makes me with draw and miss my istp ughh.
What are the chances I would date the two spectrums of stp and I realize that I'm too feely for the two of them actually, I'm too sexually freaky for the estp and I'm too let's cuddle and talk with my istp ( I said to him let's lay like broccoli and share feelings.. his reply let's just lay like broccoli lol)
i know I need to really just dump them both but just wanted to share my experience as the more I've delved into personality types the more fascinating I've found The Whole experience.