It's preference so who cares if you're happy.
On another note, my personal observation is that women who are tiny who prefer to date much taller (over 5") and men who are taller who prefer to date much more petite (over 5") is red flag territory.
My point exactly... If a guy is too out of shape or overweight to lift me (unless he has a legitimate physical limitation), I would be turned off.
I am not offended at all but why do you consider that a red flag? At 4'11, that would mean anyone over 5'6 is a red flag. The guy I have been dating is close to 6'.It's preference so who cares if you're happy.
On another note, my personal observation is that women who are tiny who prefer to date much taller (over 5") and men who are taller who prefer to date much more petite (over 5") is red flag territory.
Hahaha thanks, I play into my petiteness. However, at times, I would love to be tall with enhanced curves.
Um... me? What is that in non-freedom units?
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Haha, I can lift you off the ground but I don't think I can carry you in my arms like a baby. That's what other, strong men are for.
Why is it not 1? Isn't Freedom the no. 1?
I am not that tall at 5'7, but I do live in a place where I suspect the average height of men is a little lower than the rest of the US, due to the common ethnic background. So I find myself on eye level with many men and a head taller than many women around me.
Men around my height and shorter will often like me, but be insecure about their own height. It has way less to do with my height than their own. I am talking guys as short as 5'3"-4" too. So I bet a fair amount of average height men may find super model height women attractive, but their own insecurity may hold them back. On dating sites though, I notice many men put a range which includes up to 2" taller than themselves.
Having dated someone shorter who was super secure about it, I will say that how the man feels about himself can influence how the woman responds to him. Do I prefer someone taller though? Yes.
Also, a fair amount of tall men do prefer tall women (which doesn't mean taller). There was some study which showed women prefer men around 5" taller, but men prefer women only about 3" shorter. So women wearing heels can be more than just getting a sexy strut and lengthening the legs. It can make them appeal more to the men they find attractive.
I suspect this has something to do with getting a height advantage for future male offspring (because the social advantage is there, whether we like it or not). While men may prefer shorter than themselves because of sexual dimorphism, they don't want their offspring to be a lot shorter (subconsciously). But shorter women may want an upgrade for their kids.
Oh right it's ok if a woman cries about it.
I wonder how it would feel if men started talking about how short women or even tall women should feel secure about their length? Hey you, I'll only date you if you're secure of your length? Wait, I have an issue with length? I didn't know it was an issue, should I have an issue? ISSUES?? I HAVE ISSUES
