Mal12345
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- Joined
- Apr 19, 2011
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- MBTI Type
- IxTP
- Enneagram
- 5w4
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/sp
How many times do I have to say that I'm not living a lie, being inauthentic and presenting a fake me to others for the sake of social conformity before you actually believe that I know myself best lol? Just because your dad or whatever other FJs you know did this doesn't mean all FJs are like that. I definitely see ways that I could live my life "as a lie," which is actually what the majority of society would want me to do. By being myself in that aspect I'm actually going against the grain to be true to myself. :/
I won't speak for you or anybody here personally because I don't know you.
But I have seen an FJ type suddenly realize her whole life has been a lie.
I've been around for a long time, and I have seen some stuff.