Zarathustra
Let Go Of Your Team
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Why is it that girls always (wrongly/retardedly) thought that we enjoyed that?
Why is it that girls always (wrongly/retardedly) thought that we enjoyed that?
Coz playfighting often leads to sex and you seem to enjoy that just fine?
No arguments here, I suppose.
I just wish my 3rd grade self knew it was an invitation to tap that ass.
Likewise..it's not like guys express themselves any better...
[MENTION=7254]Wind-Up Rex[/MENTION], I will get to this eventually, I swear
[MENTION=8413]Zarathustra[/MENTION]
I can tell you right now, your methods are not going to work with a more sensitive NFP. You're playing with fire, if you truly understand that emotions are valued above all else by an NFP. The talk of 'rationalising inaction' to me proves that this misses the point. We aren't going to change our actions until we change emotionally.
Let's just say your type of reason isn't exactly beneficial to our health and leave it at that.
Can't do.
I think this is simply cowardice on the part of Te suppressors.
Guess what: if TJs continue to reject Fi and Se/Ne, they don't grow.
Whether you want to believe it or not, the same principle applies for FPs.
Can't do.
I think this is simply cowardice on the part of Te suppressors.
Guess what: if TJs continue to reject Fi and Se/Ne, they don't grow.
Whether you want to believe it or not, the same principle applies for FPs.
They do indeed. And I've worked harder at developing my Te than 90% of the FPs I know. However, I also know what it's like to have a TJ use a fire-hose to spray you down rather than a gentle rain to help you grow. The force can be traumatizing dude. Of course, my TJ when younger I think was particularly harsh. I think even other TJs would have been like wtf. But still, they are right that if you take an FP that isn't already predisposed to the notion of needing to grow, and you use the wrong methods, it will not go well. They have to want to grow, and you have to help them in an appropriate way - which helps you grow as well.
Ok, see, this is getting somewhere.
So you see two main criteria for this process to go well:
1. The FP has to want to grow (and, as such, probably realize that more Te is necessary in their life).
2. The TJ has to use the proper methodology (which, in turn, helps them grow as well).
So, what is the proper methodology?
This is just a simple way...
I'm fine with catering my argument to the audience.
But I don't think many NTJ's anywhere have the finesse to pull that off [MENTION=5494]Amargith[/MENTION].