like most other people. i generally avoid life-threatening situations.
- do you ever forget to do things like eat, sleep, etc?
less forget and more put off. i tend to short myself on sleep if there is something more interesting going on. i have never had a problem with food, though. i just sort of eat when i'm hungry or when it's convenient. sometimes i'll get a headache if i haven't had anything to eat in a long time, but otherwise this kind of stuff doesn't bother me much. i figure if i really need to sleep, then i'll sleep, and if i really need to eat, then i'll eat.
- do you ever have trouble seeing the consequences of dangerous actions or actions that might negatively affect your future?
i'm an enneagram 6, so i'm thinking about consequences all the time. but like speed, those "off-limits" ideas don't run through my head, either.
Speed Gavroche said:
all theses shit like "I'm scary, i have no job/I'm afraid to be homeless/you could die from this/I need to have a saving plan for money/I can't do this I'have to nurish me, my wife and my three kids/ are stranges.
i mean, not that i really want to be homeless, but it doesn't seem like it would be that big of a deal. just like every other problem in life i would face it, overcome it, and move on. maybe i'm lucky and spoiled but things in life have always seemed to work out. i've almost died a couple times because of medical things (that i could not have foreseen) but i'm still here.
- do you care about money?
yes, i do. i am quite monetarily aware and am a good saver. i need to get better at investing, though.
basically the way i see sp-last is that accounting for my own safety and wellbeing takes up the least of my headspace... and maybe that's part of why it's last in my stacking. i just don't worry about it. i am much too busy neurotically assessing the status of my relationships with individuals (sx) and where i belong (so) to attend to the pragmatics of my life, lol. which unfortunately means that i will leave my own work til last, i will put off cleaning my car and my house, and so on. it helps me a lot to have a significant other who reminds me to attend to my own things.
i really think the instinctual stackings are less about ability and more about attention. it's not like we lack the power to attend to ourselves well; it's just not a priority for us. the same goes for the others. it's not like sx-last folk don't have the ability to closely monitor their feelings of attraction and repulsion, they just don't dedicate much time to it.
I hear that sp last are the less mature than other types.
in what way? probably we are, in terms of taking care of ourselves. but we are quite attentive to our environment and our relationships with entities, and in many situations that makes us more mature than those who are more self-attuned.