Silveresque
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Well... the trust is thing I had problem with when I was child. Trusting others. First, I have trusted anybody. Then, I haven't trusted anybody (even myself). And now, I do consider, if it is trustworth person or not. But often it isn't.
Active, active... you mean active, like, on forums like this? If yes, then I became more active. I had never checked forums everyday.
Calm and confident - I didn't mentioned those, because I don't see difference here. Calm I am, and about confident... well, not so much.
Withdrawn and detached... Yes, I think I have experienced this in my childhood. It was 6th-9th grade, when I had (almost) no friends at school, and was happy as hell when arrived home. Just kidding, I was depressive even home. When at school, I was just lying on the desk, doing nothing, but waiting, when I will escape from hell (or staring on clocks). Now (on High school) I have no time to just stare at clock, because people want to use me. I am really glad when I can help (2w1), but sometimes I refuse any help. I have no problem with cheating on tests (even tough I have 2 times wing 1 at tritype, maybe because 1 itself is not present in my tritype), because everybody cheats. Yeah, and when somebody (anybody) spoke on me, I ignored him/her, because I knew it will be something dirty (you know, dirty talks). And after dirty talks there was always that cruel group laugh.
Traumatic, huh? I have permanent state of depression now, because of ruined childhood at school, no success at getting girl, and having no goal at life. No reason to live. Just waiting until it will end.
By "active", I mean taking control of your life and getting out there and actually acting rather than just thinking about what to do. Being active on this forum isn't really the same kind of active, and it could even be used as a means of escape from the real world or as an excuse for not being active IRL (but don't get me wrong, plenty of people use this site not as a means of "escape", I'm just stating a possible use).
At average/unhealthy levels, 5's often have problems with reclusiveness, and they tend to try to solve all their problems by thinking rather than acting. 6's can be reclusive as well I suppose, especially with a 5 wing, but they're more likely to look for allies by testing people to see who they trust. 6's want to be protected, especially by an "ally" they consider to be stronger and more capable than themselves. 5's on the other hand often have trust issues as well, but their trust manifests itself in the form of being secretive and afraid of revealing their vulnerabilities, lest they be rejected or looked down upon. 6's may actually use their vulnerabilities as a means to gain sympathy and protection from others.