Rex
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That's probably a much better idea on a first date than what Nameless Hero actually meant.
*wants to hug the sweet little robot to pieces*
That's probably a much better idea on a first date than what Nameless Hero actually meant.
*wants to hug the sweet little robot to pieces*
Slight OT:
I was out drinking last night. Meet this girl that was for some odd reason super interested in the MBTI stuff i came to talk about. I ended up at her table meeting her friends. a master student in filosofi and a math master student.
This girl who dragged me to her table was just so equal me... was so inspiring to talk to her and particularly hear her view on things and her opinions.
She hated that knowledgeable people did not share their knowledge. So did i and all that.
So then i made a big fuck up as usual as i was thinking ahead and was hoping to meet this people again so i could hopefully get more intellectual stimuli. Been hungering!
So i new that often things happen and we get separated so i was like "here is my phone number and shit and totaly told her why shy was so awesome in clarity and detail. blabla.
I think i just assumed that the truth is pure and clean. she would like that honesty.
It seems like i somehow missed the fact that the truth can be just as cheesy as any lie.
Besides it was way to early. I need to work on my timing and my risk analyzing before taking action in such a big thing. Problem is that im by nature not really concerned about implications of things.
My experience new i was going home early, my planner function tried to prevent it. And therefore fuck it up.
Experience always wins.
something like that.
Any don`t do tips? etc.
any spesifics i should look for that might couse trouble. I have a lot of things on my mind but im thinking you guys have some aditional.
What could go wrong? You hardly know this woman, if she doesn't return your interest, no loss.
(1) BE YOURSELF.
(2) BE ALIVE AND AWARE IN THE HERE AND NOW OF YOUR CONVERSATION WITH HER.
(3) At the conclusion of your coffee tell her how much you enjoyed your time with her, and that you'd like to meetup with her again, and be sure to specify WHAT, WHEN, and WHERE.
-Halla
nono you see i missed out from a nachspiel. so i had a bad timing. i should have done it when i left the nachspiel. Or not at all as she could have just as easy become a friend.
i generally wouldnt listen to this advice
I understand what you mean, I think. Impatience can cause someone who probably would have at the very least become a friend to feel as though you're pushy or something
Slight OT:
I was out drinking last night. Meet this girl that was for some odd reason super interested in the MBTI stuff i came to talk about. I ended up at her table meeting her friends. a master student in filosofi and a math master student.
This girl who dragged me to her table was just so equal me... was so inspiring to talk to her and particularly hear her view on things and her opinions.
She hated that knowledgeable people did not share their knowledge. So did i and all that.
So then i made a big fuck up as usual as i was thinking ahead and was hoping to meet this people again so i could hopefully get more intellectual stimuli. Been hungering!
So i new that often things happen and we get separated so i was like "here is my phone number and shit and totaly told her why shy was so awesome in clarity and detail. blabla.
I think i just assumed that the truth is pure and clean. she would like that honesty.
It seems like i somehow missed the fact that the truth can be just as cheesy as any lie.
Besides it was way to early. I need to work on my timing and my risk analyzing before taking action in such a big thing. Problem is that im by nature not really concerned about implications of things.
My experience new i was going home early, my planner function tried to prevent it. And therefore fuck it up.
Experience always wins.
something like that.
(3) At the conclusion of your coffee tell her how much you enjoyed your time with her, and that you'd like to meetup with her again, and be sure to specify WHAT, WHEN, and WHERE. No good date ends on a dangling participle. You MUST have a path to forward progress, and it must be mutually agreed upon by her if it is to ever have any chance of coming to fruition...
Dr. Love has spoken.
-Halla