sLiPpY
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- Joined
- Oct 14, 2009
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- MBTI Type
- ISTP
- Enneagram
- 9w8
- Instinctual Variant
- sp/sx
I was curious how other SP's handle cheating. Like when you cheat on your partners? and if so do you tell them? or is it just a dirty little secret? j/k
I've always been honest in communicating with partners, when we're in a "committed or non-committed" relationship. I've also quickly ditched friends over the years who weren't successful in keeping their commitments.
It was ok with me that whatever happened, or happens. So long as they were willing to face it and fess up to the partner they'd committed to. If it appeared to be a habit vs. an accident, those friends would still get the boot.
Self-control, is just as important as integrity...in choosing friends.
At least for me.
What say you SPs? What's your own take and approach to the topic.
I've always been honest in communicating with partners, when we're in a "committed or non-committed" relationship. I've also quickly ditched friends over the years who weren't successful in keeping their commitments.
It was ok with me that whatever happened, or happens. So long as they were willing to face it and fess up to the partner they'd committed to. If it appeared to be a habit vs. an accident, those friends would still get the boot.
Self-control, is just as important as integrity...in choosing friends.
At least for me.
What say you SPs? What's your own take and approach to the topic.