Misty_Mountain_Rose
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I'm curious now from reading the "NT Females - Are Relationships Difficult" thread. I've seen a lot of us referring to themselves as having high standards, being 'picky' and knowing immediately when a relationship won't work.
What are the minimum characteristics that you REQUIRE in a potential mate? If you won't date someone who likes crunchy peanut butter... lets have it. Lets have an extensive list, be it physical, personality related, quirk related, maturity/responsibility related, etc, etc.
Lets do the MUST HAVE, the I PREFER, the PREFER NOT and the DEALBREAKERS
Here is mine...
MUST HAVE's
A stable job
A stable home life
Self Respecting
Truthful
Funny
Enjoys debates/knowledgeable
Responsible/Dependable
Prefer NOT to deal with if possible
Smokers
Night Owls
Computer/Gaming addicts (Must be able to balance with other activities)
Drama seekers
Red Sox Fans (hahaha)
Someone who always has to be out of the house doing something to be happy
I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...
Has a love/passion for music - any kind, either creating or enjoying others'
Has knowledge of literature and likes to read
Someone who can handle finances and plans ahead
DEAL BREAKERS
Criminal record
Abusive/Controlling/Unwarranted Jealousy
Drugs
Married
Cheaters
I might think of more, but thats a start.
Lets see if we're unreasonable...
What are the minimum characteristics that you REQUIRE in a potential mate? If you won't date someone who likes crunchy peanut butter... lets have it. Lets have an extensive list, be it physical, personality related, quirk related, maturity/responsibility related, etc, etc.
Lets do the MUST HAVE, the I PREFER, the PREFER NOT and the DEALBREAKERS
Here is mine...
MUST HAVE's
A stable job
A stable home life
Self Respecting
Truthful
Funny
Enjoys debates/knowledgeable
Responsible/Dependable
Prefer NOT to deal with if possible
Smokers
Night Owls
Computer/Gaming addicts (Must be able to balance with other activities)
Drama seekers
Red Sox Fans (hahaha)
Someone who always has to be out of the house doing something to be happy
I Prefer/Think I would connect better with someone who...
Has a love/passion for music - any kind, either creating or enjoying others'
Has knowledge of literature and likes to read
Someone who can handle finances and plans ahead
DEAL BREAKERS
Criminal record
Abusive/Controlling/Unwarranted Jealousy
Drugs
Married
Cheaters
I might think of more, but thats a start.
Lets see if we're unreasonable...