I don't know. He's sounds less of an "emotional retard" than me at times.
To illustrate apparent Fi PoLR behavior.. I got typed by a bunch of people as a possible ESTp in Socionics (or at least Fi PoLR), because I felt like making out with someone in front of her whiny husband. Apparently this is not "knowing emotional or psychological distance", and just behaving in a manner that inflicts my own will on an environment.
OTOH, my friends say I'm more Golblum-ish or Hank Moodyish. So maybe I'm just one of those cool ENTPs (still Fi PoLR). Or an ISFP just playing around. I would just say I cut the bullshit sometimes. I think I know it's "not right". I just do it anyways.
KDude: I know 3 ESTPs in real life and they're definitely not emotional retards. Maybe except for my uncle. People always think of him as an egotistical jerk, but maybe he's not even ESTP. But the other 2 are women, and they can deal with people very skillfully. So I don't think having social grace is a trait that doesn't belong to ESTP.
And what's PoLR? I saw it in Socionics but confused everytime seeing people use it.
In the practice of tolerance, one's enemy is the best teacher.