I don't know if I'm the only INFP with this problem, but there is this constant inner turmoil in me that completely erupts when I am faced with important decisions. The problem seems to stem from the fact that my Ne is stifled by my Fi.
Fi filters information based on interpretations of worth, forming judgments according to criteria that are often intangible. Fi constantly balances an internal set of values such as harmony and authenticity. Attuned to subtle distinctions, Fi innately senses what is true and what is false in a situation. With Fi as their dominant function, INFPs live primarily in a rich inner world of emotion.
Ne finds and interprets hidden meanings, using “what if” questions to explore alternatives, allowing multiple possibilities to coexist. This imaginative play weaves together insights and experiences from various sources to form a new whole, which can then become a catalyst to action. INFPs engage the outside world primarily with intuition. They are adept at seeing the big picture, sensing patterns and the flow of existence from the past toward the future.
My Fi causes me to be too self-absorbed and stuck in the past. My Ne wants to take drastic action and help remedy my depression, but has no outlet. Yes this is all very theoretical and vague. Any suggestions?