I'm not stereotyping Te-doms as bullies. Nor am I saying that these types can't get along and understand one another. I'm saying that a natural animosity exists between them.
Possibly, but I think it's more of a temporary thing rather than a fundamental incompatibility.
I think INTJs and INTPs can develop a mutual respect, but it takes time. I'm thinking of an INTJ coworker I clashed with at first; we eventually developed that mutual respect, I think. We have somewhat different strengths, but they are both very useful for things that we would probably agree are important.
INTPs should stop bullying people. They're so mean.
INTPs are bullies? Usually we like to leave people alone. The idea of going out of our way to make someone's life miserable seems foreign to me, at least. I don't care enough one way or the other to seek something like that out, unless I feel they've wronged me or someone I care about. But even then, it's sort of a temporary one time thing, not something I do consistently because I've found a target.
I should add that INFPs are equally capable of hurting other people's feelings... I don't think many INFPs are as empathetic as they like to think they are. Fi doms will bully if they think it serves some "good", or even if they have just decided that the person in question is "unacceptable".
Moreover, if they've decided someone has "potential" to be something they find more acceptable, they will nag the person in question in spite of obvious signs of how uncomfortable it's making the other person. To me, that feels like bullying, even if the INFP doesn't see it that way. I can and do tell them, but they may not always listen. Anyway, a naturally empathetic type should be able to see the signs of discomfort... I don't exactly have a poker face.
I think Fe is better at empathy. I tend to view Fi as having a tendency towards self-righteousness and judging others to a standard that they often times won't even follow themselves. When Fi keeps the self-righteousness in check, it's fine by me. I think the empathy in question is often times rooted in some form of self-righteousness, which isn't really empathy. Or, if Fi is actually in tune with how other people are feeling, it seems to only care about this information as it relates to his or herself. I've noticed that FPs have a tendency to say stuff like "your bad attitude is making
me uncomfortable." And, then I'm being selfish because I'm not just "being happy" (as though it were that easy for me) for the other person's sake! To me, that's not actually empathy, either, as the other person is only a secondary concern.
I don't really have those problems with Fe users. They seem to be satisfied as long as I make the attempt to understand where they are coming from, and adjust my actions to satisfy their concerns. I seem to have grown my Ne enough to be able to do this. I don't know how to satisfy an unhappy Fi user, and they may even deny that something is wrong. (That doesn't change it from being my responsibility to do something about, naturally.)
Fe is reacting to external cues and feeling tones... tuning to these things, I suppose. It's not hard for me to see how this can be connected with empathy. Fi is... something different. Fi is digesting cues and feeling tones, and then determining whether or not they are acceptable. (That's all I've been able to figure out about Fi so far.) If you're less able to adjust to these feeling tones and have to submit them to an internal system of quality control, you're going to place less of a concern on how other people think. Empathy is one of positive aspects of being concerned with how other people think. The negative side of that is being a sheeple.