Video: INTJ & ENFP - How We Met!

[highlander]

• Interesting and fun story about an ENFP and INTJ meeting on a personality sie

 

[chubber]

So much hits home.

 

[Entropic]

Man, ENFPs always put me on mental tl;dr as soon as they begin to speak, but then again, I am blessed with an Se dom.

 

[Coriolis]

Good grief. I'm probably better off with my INTP, but I do remember making checklists.

 

[highlander]

I do remember making checklists.

So do I. There were about 10 things on it

 

[Coriolis]

So do I. There were about 10 things on it

My SO and I committed to each other essentially by comparing our checklists and seeing how much they matched up.

 

[highlander]

My SO and I committed to each other essentially by comparing our checklists and seeing how much they matched up.

That's awesome.

 

[great_bay]

I am a fan of the INTJ and ENFP pairing

 

[chubber]

I liked the other videos of this couple too. The cringe-worthy INTJs moments...

 

[Coriolis]

I liked the other videos of this couple too. The cringe-worthy INTJs moments...

What did you find cringe-worthy? I thought he was fine, and she was cute (in small doses), but then I admit I am biased.

 

[chubber]

What did you find cringe-worthy? I thought he was fine, and she was cute (in small doses), but then I admit I am biased.

You mean this video, was perfectly fine for you? You never do this, or that you do it and that is fine for you?

 

[BluRoses]

• Interesting and fun story about an ENFP and INTJ meeting on a personality sie

Awwww! This is so sweet! It's so nice to see an INTJ getting some love!

 

[Entropic]

What did you find cringe-worthy? I thought he was fine, and she was cute (in small doses), but then I admit I am biased.

Emphasis on small doses. I am also biased. I definitely prefer my ESFP. (Still trying to convince her to make a video with me so we can show off the awesomeness of duality.)

 

[Forever_Jung]

I love how obvious it is which one is which, before they even speak.

 

[Coriolis]

You mean this video, was perfectly fine for you? You never do this, or that you do it and that is fine for you?

I didn't realize at first that your comment referred to a different video than the one Highlander posted. After watching it, though, the only incident that was truly bad was the last (about the girl on the bus) since it was getting a laugh at someone else's expense. The first incident was not really the INTJ's doing, more done to him. I know better than to play games like this, since it never ends well. The others were a combination of bad luck and perhaps some miscalculation, though I didn't understand the point of the dollar on the chair. So, perhaps I'm just oblivious to what makes them cringeworthy.

They actually seemed to bother the ENFP more than the INTJ.

 

[chubber]

I didn't realize at first that your comment referred to a different video than the one Highlander posted. After watching it, though, the only incident that was truly bad was the last (about the girl on the bus) since it was getting a laugh at someone else's expense. The first incident was not really the INTJ's doing, more done to him. I know better than to play games like this, since it never ends well. The others were a combination of bad luck and perhaps some miscalculation, though I didn't understand the point of the dollar on the chair. So, perhaps I'm just oblivious to what makes them cringeworthy.

They actually seemed to bother the ENFP more than the INTJ.

Te does seem to bother Fi a lot

 

[Entropic]

Te does seem to bother Fi a lot

What do you mean?

 

[chubber]

What do you mean?

Try making a joke to an IxFP. The bus moment is Te, and if you notice, her Fi is trying change it. Her values are always going to try and suppress Te, so it will be this constant battle between Te and Fi. The functions Te and Fi always pairs up with the perceiving functions. You will never see Fi supporting Te or the other way around. ENFP is Ne Fi and the shadow is Si Te (ISTJ), although we write it as Ne Fi Te Si. When at a younger age, you despise your shadow (Ne Fi don't like Si Te). That's probably why it takes 50 years to try and grow and accept your shadow. (not everyone is guaranteed to develop it, unless made conscience about it.)

 

[Coriolis]

Try making a joke to an IxFP. The bus moment is Te, and if you notice, her Fi is trying change it. Her values are always going to try and suppress Te, so it will be this constant battle between Te and Fi. The functions Te and Fi always pairs up with the perceiving functions. You will never see Fi supporting Te or the other way around. ENFP is Ne Fi and the shadow is Si Te (ISTJ), although we write it as Ne Fi Te Si. When at a younger age, you despise your shadow (Ne Fi don't like Si Te). That's probably why it takes 50 years to try and grow and accept your shadow. (not everyone is guaranteed to develop it, unless made conscience about it.)

I disagree, especially since this is often how it does work for INTJ - Te logic and logistics supports Fi values and priorities. Te provides the "how" while Fi provides the "why".

 

[great_bay]

Good grief. I'm probably better off with my INTP, but I do remember making checklists.

Coriolis, how is your relation with your INTP? Do you feel like friends or romantic partners?