Chimerical
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- Apr 30, 2008
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I've recently been working on a New system of pick-up since I don't like most of the method's used and it comes off very unnatural since I don't want to do it.
Looking and feeling natural is a very big part of pick up. If you're approached by someone who does things choppy and sloppy then you'll start to reallize that and you wont want to be around this person. You're not going to want to be intimate with them, it feels like they're trying to trick you and have alterior motives or as if they're incompetent and unable to meet your standards.
So when there are techniques and gimmicks and games and so forth out there that are attractive it's best to go for things that play off what you do best naturally. Since I happen to study Jung typology as well as pick up artist and attraction I decided to combine it for this very reason.
INTJ.
Good memory, unconventional, creative, organized, doesn't care what other's think, independant, strong willpower, large list of skills and hobbies, uses unconventional methods to complete a task [like mcgyver type shit], great at planning and strategy.
All of the above are good traits that I naturally do anyway. Things that can be very attractive.
The other day I meet a girl at my mother's house I hadn't seen before. I didn't care to talk to her really, I just wanted to play the piano. So I do, she tells me I suck, I don't care and continue playing as if she hadn't said anything to begin with. Then I play videogames with my little brother and she says games are for kids, I ignor her again.
Then I wanted to get a black and mild from the store and knew she wanted to smoke as well, so I ask her if she wants to come to the store with me. I bullshit and tell a few jokes on the way to the store. Crossing the street was the part that mattered most.
I look at cars and know where they're going to be within set amount of time, so I walk at an angle based on how fast they're traveling and me not wanting to walk fast. They end up passing just before or just after I pass through their lane. But the time it takes me to figure this out is no time at all. I just know it so I adjust my direction and walk in a straight line.
As I'm doing this, she tells me I'm going to get hit, I don't listen and keep walking, the car passes just after I make it to the otherside and never had to slow down.
On the way back I do it again, it's natural to me, she follow's me this time, trusting that my intuition and judgement will get me there without getting hit.
Later, the next day, she was trying to sell a psp and was going to end up taking 3 bus trips more than she needed. I come up with a better plan and she end up doing that instead and saves money.
At some point I was at a food bank eating and some kid was coloring, I wanted to color as well. the lady who got me the coloring sheet asks my age, I tell her I'm 25 and she looks at me funny, but I don't care because I wanted to color.
Her ex boyfriend comes over and makes fun of me and I ignor him because I'm having fun. I have a picture of a rat, I make it's eye's X's and color in a pool of blood and flies above it. Someone tell's me I'm fucked up, I ignore them as I'm making an origami swan for this kid who was coloring with me.
Speaking of kids, I get along very well with them. So I'm talking to this kid, the same as I talk to everyone else rather than talking down to him. We trade pictures after we're done coloring.
when I go to leave, the girl follow's me.
The basic thing is that I'm doing very suptle things to illistrate what I'm good at without bragging about it. Or selling myself by showing what I have to offer. But the whole time I'm just being myself and doing what I want when I want [which is the main selling point]. I don't care if she likes me or not, so I'm willing to ditch her and not concerned when she says she's leaving or even if she insults me.
This gives her absolutely NO control over me at all [I hate being controlled]. She can't insult me, she's not going to hit me, there's nothing she can do to get me to do something UNLESS I actually want to do it. All I'm doing is living my life and having fun doing what I want.
On another note, this is just one girl who showed interest, but there were other girls showing me interest the whole time.
To conclude, I've decided to work with a few friend to write out things to do for all types. My friend John is ENTP, and my friend Pete is INTP. Then there's Mike, who's unaware of pick-up but doesn't have problems with chick's he's an ESTP. All of them are willing and useful to this project were all you have to do is display who you are to people.
Looking and feeling natural is a very big part of pick up. If you're approached by someone who does things choppy and sloppy then you'll start to reallize that and you wont want to be around this person. You're not going to want to be intimate with them, it feels like they're trying to trick you and have alterior motives or as if they're incompetent and unable to meet your standards.
So when there are techniques and gimmicks and games and so forth out there that are attractive it's best to go for things that play off what you do best naturally. Since I happen to study Jung typology as well as pick up artist and attraction I decided to combine it for this very reason.
INTJ.
Good memory, unconventional, creative, organized, doesn't care what other's think, independant, strong willpower, large list of skills and hobbies, uses unconventional methods to complete a task [like mcgyver type shit], great at planning and strategy.
All of the above are good traits that I naturally do anyway. Things that can be very attractive.
The other day I meet a girl at my mother's house I hadn't seen before. I didn't care to talk to her really, I just wanted to play the piano. So I do, she tells me I suck, I don't care and continue playing as if she hadn't said anything to begin with. Then I play videogames with my little brother and she says games are for kids, I ignor her again.
Then I wanted to get a black and mild from the store and knew she wanted to smoke as well, so I ask her if she wants to come to the store with me. I bullshit and tell a few jokes on the way to the store. Crossing the street was the part that mattered most.
I look at cars and know where they're going to be within set amount of time, so I walk at an angle based on how fast they're traveling and me not wanting to walk fast. They end up passing just before or just after I pass through their lane. But the time it takes me to figure this out is no time at all. I just know it so I adjust my direction and walk in a straight line.
As I'm doing this, she tells me I'm going to get hit, I don't listen and keep walking, the car passes just after I make it to the otherside and never had to slow down.
On the way back I do it again, it's natural to me, she follow's me this time, trusting that my intuition and judgement will get me there without getting hit.
Later, the next day, she was trying to sell a psp and was going to end up taking 3 bus trips more than she needed. I come up with a better plan and she end up doing that instead and saves money.
At some point I was at a food bank eating and some kid was coloring, I wanted to color as well. the lady who got me the coloring sheet asks my age, I tell her I'm 25 and she looks at me funny, but I don't care because I wanted to color.
Her ex boyfriend comes over and makes fun of me and I ignor him because I'm having fun. I have a picture of a rat, I make it's eye's X's and color in a pool of blood and flies above it. Someone tell's me I'm fucked up, I ignore them as I'm making an origami swan for this kid who was coloring with me.
Speaking of kids, I get along very well with them. So I'm talking to this kid, the same as I talk to everyone else rather than talking down to him. We trade pictures after we're done coloring.
when I go to leave, the girl follow's me.
The basic thing is that I'm doing very suptle things to illistrate what I'm good at without bragging about it. Or selling myself by showing what I have to offer. But the whole time I'm just being myself and doing what I want when I want [which is the main selling point]. I don't care if she likes me or not, so I'm willing to ditch her and not concerned when she says she's leaving or even if she insults me.
This gives her absolutely NO control over me at all [I hate being controlled]. She can't insult me, she's not going to hit me, there's nothing she can do to get me to do something UNLESS I actually want to do it. All I'm doing is living my life and having fun doing what I want.
On another note, this is just one girl who showed interest, but there were other girls showing me interest the whole time.
To conclude, I've decided to work with a few friend to write out things to do for all types. My friend John is ENTP, and my friend Pete is INTP. Then there's Mike, who's unaware of pick-up but doesn't have problems with chick's he's an ESTP. All of them are willing and useful to this project were all you have to do is display who you are to people.
