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18 Weeks

Kasper

Diabolical
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May 30, 2008
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ENTP
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[video=youtube;B3I90Z7A_-k]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B3I90Z7A_-k[/video]
 

rav3n

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Kasper, talk about a transition! Do you have any idea how your body language has changed? Your gestures, facial expressions, everything, are more assertive, relaxed and masculine. Ever notice how a confident man takes up more space with more controlled gestures that use more space?

As far as people knowing and judging, I don't have much to say beyond if you come across in your clip the way you come across in real life, people are going to inherently know you're sane.
 

Athenian200

Protocol Droid
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Jul 1, 2007
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8,856
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INFJ
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4w5
Wow, it's difficult for me to believe you used to be a girl. You look so masculine. I'm proud of you for getting so far in this process. I'm very happy to see you succeed! I've known about my issues longer, but been unable to get myself into a position to do anything about them.

All I've really done is half-tried to sound feminine on Skype, which really isn't that difficult since I have one of those voices you couldn't easily peg as masculine or feminine anyway.

Anyway, I do know how frustrating it could be to feel as though you lack control over a situation that directly affects you. :( People are likely to find out sooner or later. The question is whether you want to go as long as you can without them finding out, or take control of it and tell them yourself. It's really not an easy decision, and I wish you the best of luck with it.
 

Kasper

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Heh, just saw these comments, oops :biggrin:

I'm about a bazzillion times happier Jen, which would carry over to confidence no doubt.
 
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