Seems to be my situation. We work pretty well, although there's been moments.
What's good, instinct-wise:
He brings me out into the world. He's good at getting my fun side out.
I remind him that what he really wants and establishing limits, boundaries is important.
I let him socialize with his crew plenty; I'm happy to have the alone time.
The difficult:
He's so energetic and outwardly focused. It overwhelms me sometimes and keeps me from talking.
He seems way more passionate and sexual than me. I have a hard time revealing that side of me, although it is very present, so it can make me seem prudish, but I just need my space.
He likes to talk a lot. I'm relatively non-verbal, unless I'm writing or excited. My 'mystery', which he finds attractive, also bugs him at times cause I reveal so little.
He can never just sit and chill while he thinks I sit and chill too much, but there's so much going on inside that he never sees.