skylights
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i like being in a co-leadership position.
being a singular leader is not as pleasing to me because i like to bounce my ideas off someone else, and there are some things you really just can't talk about with subordinates. being a lone leader is so much more stressful to me.
i really enjoy being in a co-/partner position, however. admittedly i really like the "glory" of it and enjoy the privileges, but the most important element, of course, is giving my all for something i really believe in, and helping it to be better. vice pres is good stuff, too.
as for leading... delegating is great - help everyone apply their talents where they can be used most. i also don't mind putting in the last-minute legwork, which is where i feel like leaders do their most behind-the-scenes stuff. lord knows there's always a lot of last minute scrambling behind every perfectly-pulled-together event, and that's really where leaders can either shine or flop. i'm a good teacher, too. i LOVE presentations.
you ENFJs generally make wonderful leaders but you gotta stop that. of course it's part of what makes you so good, but sometimes yall really stress yourselves out
being a singular leader is not as pleasing to me because i like to bounce my ideas off someone else, and there are some things you really just can't talk about with subordinates. being a lone leader is so much more stressful to me.
i really enjoy being in a co-/partner position, however. admittedly i really like the "glory" of it and enjoy the privileges, but the most important element, of course, is giving my all for something i really believe in, and helping it to be better. vice pres is good stuff, too.
as for leading... delegating is great - help everyone apply their talents where they can be used most. i also don't mind putting in the last-minute legwork, which is where i feel like leaders do their most behind-the-scenes stuff. lord knows there's always a lot of last minute scrambling behind every perfectly-pulled-together event, and that's really where leaders can either shine or flop. i'm a good teacher, too. i LOVE presentations.
Arclight said:Leaders work harder than their subordinates. You set an example and people then follow it.
You make people want it. They start to do things to serve you, not because they have to.
On the flip side, I take everything way too personally and stress can become a serious problem.
you ENFJs generally make wonderful leaders but you gotta stop that. of course it's part of what makes you so good, but sometimes yall really stress yourselves out