Getting to understand these kind people and develop a personal relationship with them is priceless .
Any ISFP likes to share how you like to be treated "royally"?
If you are sad or worry, how do I show support?
Is it very rare you will share your emotions with friends?
Dear Julie, please discuss more on " lots of attention spent on Me?"
please gives some examples of attentions. Thank U.
Attention for me is .. daily/weekly emails or phone calls from my closet friends to just check in and see how my day/week is going. Nothing is as sad as "no new messages".
Just someone wanting to be with me often. Since I don't get close to too many people, and I feel lonely most of the time, it helps to know that I'm important in someone's life.
Someone who listens to me and is patient when it takes a while for me to gather my thoughts and express myself. Plus if I don't express myself clearly .. it helps if you don't say "you are so complicated".
Doing things with someone .. be it dates, trips, shopping sprees, hiking, swimming.
Show support by telling me you will be there when I'm ready to talk.
Patiently listen to me vent as I'm sorting through feelings kept deep inside. As they come to the surface, they might not seem to rational at first.
I RARELY share emotions with friends. I've had alot of problems past few years and I tend to hide from friends during these times. I sit on couch staring at the walls as I try to sort through them .. ignoring the phone calls, emails. It helps to know people are there. But I hate to bring other's down. I hate people seeing me at my weakest point.
Hope this helps. Email me if you want to talk more. I don't like to reveal too much on these sites.