Aquarelle
Starcrossed Seafarer
- Joined
- Jun 16, 2010
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- 4w5
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- so/sp
hmmm, I never considered this a "line" or "flirting" at least not initially, but I think ive come to realize lately that it can possibly have that effect... :Names changed to protect the innocent
"Hey there [NT], Ive been interested in [something they are greatly interested in] but i cant quite figure this out, can you let me know your thoughts on it? "listens for awhile, asks more questions" wow, thanks for the help, I love your brain! *flex own brain, respond with detailed understanding of subject you have just gained by listening to them, theorize a bit(P's) continue discussion for hours...* .
although as far as I know this may only work with NTP's, and personally, id only use it when I am actually interested in their opinion/information, not as a means to try and hook up with an NT,lol... but really...even I find such exchanges damn sexy, especially when the NT actually values your contribution to the discussion...
That's what we call "showing interest in someone's interests" and "having a conversation." Perhaps with a little bit of flattery thrown in for good measure. I consider it different than flirting, but it can definitely have a similar effect.