greenfairy
philosopher wood nymph
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Question #3:
Ok so I was checking out at Target (bought some gray yoga pants) and there was a person ahead of me, so I got distracted by the magazines. I can't remember if I put my stuff on the counter or not- probably not. I didn't look like I was in line, but I thought I was since I was waiting. When the person got done and the register opened up I saw the woman behind me move for it- after a moment of decision making I jumped in front of her. She only had 2 items (like I did) so it was pushing it (if she'd had 5 or more I wouldn't have felt bad and if she'd had 1 I would have let her go), but I thought it was ok. I paid quickly. I heard her complain to the cashier that I had cut in line ahead of her. I explained I was here but just waiting and looking at magazines; I don't know if they understood. In the future I plan to make sure I put my stuff on the counter and then get distracted. Is that the right thing to do? Was I rude? Do other INFJ's do stuff like that, or do you always know the right protocol in any social situation?
Ok so I was checking out at Target (bought some gray yoga pants) and there was a person ahead of me, so I got distracted by the magazines. I can't remember if I put my stuff on the counter or not- probably not. I didn't look like I was in line, but I thought I was since I was waiting. When the person got done and the register opened up I saw the woman behind me move for it- after a moment of decision making I jumped in front of her. She only had 2 items (like I did) so it was pushing it (if she'd had 5 or more I wouldn't have felt bad and if she'd had 1 I would have let her go), but I thought it was ok. I paid quickly. I heard her complain to the cashier that I had cut in line ahead of her. I explained I was here but just waiting and looking at magazines; I don't know if they understood. In the future I plan to make sure I put my stuff on the counter and then get distracted. Is that the right thing to do? Was I rude? Do other INFJ's do stuff like that, or do you always know the right protocol in any social situation?