the state i am in
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manipulating is something that happens in all facets of social life. so does influence, persuasion, coercion, trickery, deception, allying, bullshit, outright lying, etc.
not caring what is good for others, assuming you know everything and being totally FIXATED on particular judgments and/or goals, and not giving a shit about what others want/care about/feel makes you a fucking jack-ass. and however you go about being that person and acting that way, you're a jack-ass.
it's just a combination of n, s, t, f being used in ways that they need to be checked and balanced socially by other cross-functions, cross-purposes, etc. confidence can quickly become arrogance/ignorance.
not caring what is good for others, assuming you know everything and being totally FIXATED on particular judgments and/or goals, and not giving a shit about what others want/care about/feel makes you a fucking jack-ass. and however you go about being that person and acting that way, you're a jack-ass.
it's just a combination of n, s, t, f being used in ways that they need to be checked and balanced socially by other cross-functions, cross-purposes, etc. confidence can quickly become arrogance/ignorance.