Hey ISFJs!
I'm just curious (so I can settle down my mind): how do you ISFJs act when you have a crush on a close friend whom you're comfortable with? Actually... How do ISFJs act in general with your best friend(s)? Are you guys touchy-touchy and super silly if you're friend is also silly and touchy?
I have a reserved yet silly/chatty ISFJ female friend, and I'm just trying to decipher her, I guess. We tend to joke around a lot (which heavily includes play-flirt). I joke around with all my friends like that though, but specifically with her? It's taken a weird turn, and I'm just curious if it's just me being weird or if it's just her behavior from her personality. She and I are super affectionate (head on shoulders, arms around each other whenever we are near one another). For example, I have another friend who is also touchy and hugging all the time, but when this friend gets touchy with my ISFJ friend, my ISFJ doesn't return it back with enthusiasm as much as she does when I touch her. My ISFJ has also showed more vigor and attention when showering me with gifts on special occasions, but that could be due to her being a really close friend of mine. Also, she shares personal information with me that she doesn't with our other friends - but this could just be because we are super close friends. Lastly, when we're together, I make her laugh like crazy and vice versa. Oddly enough, she's always comparing how much fun she has with us (my friends and I) than when she's with her significant other. I find it interesting that she would compare my time with her to her boyfriend also. But that could just be because she's confused as to why she's enjoying spending time with me more than her SO. Maybe I'm just being weird and it's all in my head? Help me out, ISFJs!
I'm just curious (so I can settle down my mind): how do you ISFJs act when you have a crush on a close friend whom you're comfortable with? Actually... How do ISFJs act in general with your best friend(s)? Are you guys touchy-touchy and super silly if you're friend is also silly and touchy?
I have a reserved yet silly/chatty ISFJ female friend, and I'm just trying to decipher her, I guess. We tend to joke around a lot (which heavily includes play-flirt). I joke around with all my friends like that though, but specifically with her? It's taken a weird turn, and I'm just curious if it's just me being weird or if it's just her behavior from her personality. She and I are super affectionate (head on shoulders, arms around each other whenever we are near one another). For example, I have another friend who is also touchy and hugging all the time, but when this friend gets touchy with my ISFJ friend, my ISFJ doesn't return it back with enthusiasm as much as she does when I touch her. My ISFJ has also showed more vigor and attention when showering me with gifts on special occasions, but that could be due to her being a really close friend of mine. Also, she shares personal information with me that she doesn't with our other friends - but this could just be because we are super close friends. Lastly, when we're together, I make her laugh like crazy and vice versa. Oddly enough, she's always comparing how much fun she has with us (my friends and I) than when she's with her significant other. I find it interesting that she would compare my time with her to her boyfriend also. But that could just be because she's confused as to why she's enjoying spending time with me more than her SO. Maybe I'm just being weird and it's all in my head? Help me out, ISFJs!