ZNP-TBA
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3. When you first start dating someone ....
Do you open quckly or you are private ?
That totally depends on the exact circumstances and the other person. Also if I see that this is obviously not going to work I don't open too much at all ... I see no purpose.
On the other hand if I open too early I will probably steamroll over the girl, what in my culture isn't positive thing. (it makes you look like an ass)
I'd say go with what's typically more common. Since I'm still Fe I'm typically pretty open since I don't conceal my feelings in some kind of lock box (which reminds me of Fi) but I may not be too deep since there isn't a whole lot of depth feeling wise to explore. You being an xNTJ would still be Fi so you might be a bit more hesitant.