The biggest insult would be to say I am not intelligent. I had a crush on a guy for 2 years and then he told me once that I didn't get his jokes because I wasn't smart enough. I didn't laugh at his jokes because they were stupid 1st grader level jokes. That was an instant turn-off and I never liked him again.
Let me guess...young ENTP male? Or maybe INTJ?
The biggest insult anyone ever gave me was, "CzeCze, when did you become so
pedestrian and
BORING"
WHHHHHHHHHHHAT?
I was so pissed. First, I was shocked because I'm anything but commonplace (yes I am a unique wonderful snowflake - now shut it, haterz
). No one has EVER said or insinuated anything like that to me before or since then. So I had to laugh. He was purposely trying to insult me, not because he thought I was being boring, but well, let's just say he was peeved.
He was/is ESFP so I think he was able to intuitively pinpoint the thing that would bug me most in that moment.
My ISTJ friend laughed about it too, "Dang, he really got you good, because you're STILL talking about it!"
Best compliment - hmmm, I'm not gonna tell you! Because you're gonna take something special and beautiful to me and twist it into a bad type joke. So there!!!?!?!
'Kay that was fun.