Delilah
We all got it comin' kid
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- Oct 14, 2007
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- INTP
Thing is, you don't know whether you'll get kneecapped or a quickie.
Heh. Yeah, it really could go either way.
Thing is, you don't know whether you'll get kneecapped or a quickie.
Heh. Yeah, it really could go either way.
Maybe it all amounts to the same thing...?
INTP girls are very low maintenance... but the relationship has a very high activation energy. They'll drag their feet for years if you give them the leeway to do it. Normal romance tactics don't work. Or, they may work, but INTP girls won't act on feelings if they have them.
That's why I just stop giving them a choice. I'll just show up one morning at 7 a.m. and say, "Get dressed, we're going out for breakfast. No, you can't go back to bed -- I made reservations."
INTP girl: "Tough. You shouldn't have made reservations before telling me we were going out." [falls back to sleep]
There is no breakfast in the world worth me getting up that early. If my hypothetical bf shows up at 7 wanting to make me get out of the house, it is clear that he's doing it to prove a point and assert his J for no reason. FAIL.
ive heard from the horses mouth that INTPs females, while usaully "having a higher activation energy", do get very clingy once that reaction is set into swing (inferior Fe).
I kinda like being taken in hand by a firm J on occasion...Tallulah said:There is no breakfast in the world worth me getting up that early. If my hypothetical bf shows up at 7 wanting to make me get out of the house, it is clear that he's doing it to prove a point and assert his J for no reason. FAIL.
There is no breakfast in the world worth me getting up that early. If my hypothetical bf shows up at 7 wanting to make me get out of the house, it is clear that he's doing it to prove a point and assert his J for no reason. FAIL.
Oh, cmon. What if he showed up with Starbucks and some bagels looking all clean and sexy? You ain't so tough.
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I've done exactly this, weekend trip in Boston. I did miss the Starbucks adjacent to the Brueggers bagels and end up walking to a further Starbucks to do it, but I still did it.
Oh, cmon. What if he showed up with Starbucks and some bagels looking all clean and sexy? You ain't so tough.
I kinda like being taken in hand by a firm J on occasion...
INTP girls are very low maintenance... but the relationship has a very high activation energy. They'll drag their feet for years if you give them the leeway to do it. Normal romance tactics don't work. Or, they may work, but INTP girls won't act on feelings if they have them.
That's why I just stop giving them a choice. I'll just show up one morning at 7 a.m. and say, "Get dressed, we're going out for breakfast. No, you can't go back to bed -- I made reservations."
It's been something I've been able to use reliably ever since, only now I do it within a few weeks of meeting her.
How many INTPs have you dated, exactly?
That depends. What are you doing Monday night?How many INTPs have you dated, exactly?
That depends. What are you doing Monday night?