hommefatal
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I have evaluated my traits
My strenghts:
I
- am good with money
- am interested in resolving conflict, rather than ignoring it
- am able to move on after a love relationship has failed/is over (once I'm sure it's over, although I blame myself)
- want to please others
- am good at communication, especially written
- am very perceptive, sensitive, and concerned about people's thoughts, motives, and feelings
- am motivational, inspirational; bring out the best in others
- am warmly affectionate and affirming
- am fun to be with - lively sense of humour, dramatic, energetic, optimistic
- strive for "win-win" situations
- am driven to meet other's needs
- am loyal and dedicated
- am self-confident
- respect and appreciate other's needs for space and privacy
- am enthusiastic and fun-loving, I make everything enjoyable
- am extremely intelligent
- am very charming
- am laid-back and flexible, usually easy to get along with
- am a big idea-person, always working on a grand scheme or idea
- am good at making money
- feel love and affection for those close to me which is almost childlike in its purity
- am laid-back and easy-going, willing to defer to my mates
- approach things which interest me very enthusiastically
- am richly imaginative and creative
- am not demanding, with simple daily needs
- am dedicated to achieve the ultimate relationship
- have a deep capacity for love and caring
- am warmly concerned and caring towards others
- am nurturing, supportive and encouraging
- am likely to recognize and appreciate other's need for space
- am able to express myself well
- am flexible and diverse
My weaknesses:
I
- may inadvertently hurt others with insensitive language
- extremely dislike conflict and criticism
- hold onto bad relationships long after they've turned bad
- strongly need to receive praise and positive affirmation
- tend to be smothering
- My enthusiasm may lead me to be unrealistic
- am uninterested in dealing with "mundane" matters such as cleaning, paying bills, etc.
- constantly quest for the perfect relationship which makes me change relationships frequently
- become bored easily
- have difficulty scolding or punishing others
- tend to be controlling and/or manipulative
- tend to be critical of opinions and attitudes which don't match my own
- am sometimes unaware of social appropriateness or protocol
- am extremely sensitive to conflict
- tend to blame myself when things go wrong / for problems
- My sharply defined value system makes me unbending in some areas
- tend to be overly private
- thrive on action and excitement, and may stir things up to create it
- am focused on enjoying the present moment, I may appear lazy or slow-moving at times
- My enthusiasm for verbal debates can make me appear argumentative
- tend to be challenging and confrontational
- tend to have difficulty listening to others
- tend to make hasty decisions
- Lifelong commitments are a struggle for me - I take things one day at a time
- am always excited by something new, I may change partners frequently
- My love of debate causes me to provoke arguments
- tend to "blow off" conflict situations by ignoring them, or else I "blow up" in heated anger
- tend to be shy and reserved
- don't like to have my space invaded
- may react very emotionally to stressful situations
- tendency to not follow through on their plans and ideas
Descriptions that described me best:
1. ENFP (100%)
2. ENFJ (90%)
3. INFP (85%)
4. INTP (50%)
5. ENTP (40%)
5. INFJ (40%)
The others described me very little. It was just a relationships description but it makes it very clear I am an NF.
those that are not entirely true in brackets and those that are very characteristic in bold letters
I am very calm concerning most things but very limbic concerning things I care about a lot.
My strenghts:
I
- am good with money
- am interested in resolving conflict, rather than ignoring it
- am able to move on after a love relationship has failed/is over (once I'm sure it's over, although I blame myself)
- want to please others
- am good at communication, especially written
- am very perceptive, sensitive, and concerned about people's thoughts, motives, and feelings
- am motivational, inspirational; bring out the best in others
- am warmly affectionate and affirming
- am fun to be with - lively sense of humour, dramatic, energetic, optimistic
- strive for "win-win" situations
- am driven to meet other's needs
- am loyal and dedicated
- am self-confident
- respect and appreciate other's needs for space and privacy
- am enthusiastic and fun-loving, I make everything enjoyable
- am extremely intelligent
- am very charming
- am laid-back and flexible, usually easy to get along with
- am a big idea-person, always working on a grand scheme or idea
- am good at making money
- feel love and affection for those close to me which is almost childlike in its purity
- am laid-back and easy-going, willing to defer to my mates
- approach things which interest me very enthusiastically
- am richly imaginative and creative
- am not demanding, with simple daily needs
- am dedicated to achieve the ultimate relationship
- have a deep capacity for love and caring
- am warmly concerned and caring towards others
- am nurturing, supportive and encouraging
- am likely to recognize and appreciate other's need for space
- am able to express myself well
- am flexible and diverse
My weaknesses:
I
- may inadvertently hurt others with insensitive language
- extremely dislike conflict and criticism
- hold onto bad relationships long after they've turned bad
- strongly need to receive praise and positive affirmation
- tend to be smothering
- My enthusiasm may lead me to be unrealistic
- am uninterested in dealing with "mundane" matters such as cleaning, paying bills, etc.
- constantly quest for the perfect relationship which makes me change relationships frequently
- become bored easily
- have difficulty scolding or punishing others
- tend to be controlling and/or manipulative
- tend to be critical of opinions and attitudes which don't match my own
- am sometimes unaware of social appropriateness or protocol
- am extremely sensitive to conflict
- tend to blame myself when things go wrong / for problems
- My sharply defined value system makes me unbending in some areas
- tend to be overly private
- thrive on action and excitement, and may stir things up to create it
- am focused on enjoying the present moment, I may appear lazy or slow-moving at times
- My enthusiasm for verbal debates can make me appear argumentative
- tend to be challenging and confrontational
- tend to have difficulty listening to others
- tend to make hasty decisions
- Lifelong commitments are a struggle for me - I take things one day at a time
- am always excited by something new, I may change partners frequently
- My love of debate causes me to provoke arguments
- tend to "blow off" conflict situations by ignoring them, or else I "blow up" in heated anger
- tend to be shy and reserved
- don't like to have my space invaded
- may react very emotionally to stressful situations
- tendency to not follow through on their plans and ideas
Descriptions that described me best:
1. ENFP (100%)
2. ENFJ (90%)
3. INFP (85%)
4. INTP (50%)
5. ENTP (40%)
5. INFJ (40%)
The others described me very little. It was just a relationships description but it makes it very clear I am an NF.
messy, disorganized, social, tough, outgoing, rarely worries, self revealing, open, risk taker, likes the unknown, (likes large parties), makes friends easily, likes to stand out, (likes to make fun of people), reckless, optimistic, positive, strong, does not like to be alone, ambivalent about chaos, abstract, impractical, (not good at saving money), fearless, trusting, thrill seeker, not rule conscious, enjoys leadership, strange, (loves food), abstract, rarely irritated, anti-authority, attracted to the counter culture
social, calm, unstructured
those that are not entirely true in brackets and those that are very characteristic in bold letters
I am very calm concerning most things but very limbic concerning things I care about a lot.