What about friends, lovers, teachers, etc?
I didn't mean "what would you want to be?"
I intended to ask... which ones do you prefer to come across, and why? In what forms do you like what people?
I like the form of a healthy INFJ, personally.
They have enough Ni, to understand what I'm trying to say. They are extremely loyal. Yet they don't take peoples' crap. They're laid back enough to be in their company days on end, yet STILL clean. And their cleanliness applies to their Ni world. It's really cute. So they may miss things but they don't miss the the important things. <---you can tell I've had one good room(INFJ) mate and am comparing all the other bad ones(P's) to them. lol
INFJ's have Fe and are willing to stand up for people they care about. They are one of the only types I've seen use Ti where it's not unhealthy(meaning they're not consistantly rude for unprovoked for reasons.)
Also I relate to them in a sense that I can hold the same notion of wanting "purity." My notion goes more towards an affinity towards the natural or organic progression of things though. Some INFJ's get carried away with purity. Example: An INFJ not wanting thier partner to have had any other sexual experience with anyone else before them (or after them ) ...it's cute but unrealistic. :/
And then ISTP's have a natural(sensual) way of attracting me.
(Their Ti is also not rude
)
Can't put my two cents in on ENTP's or INTJ's cause I don't know any. But I think I get along with both, at least on here. And most of the time I like their posts.lol
I've had this problem with several INTJ's and many others have told me that they have the same problems with them. My brother is a perfect example of this. I live with my brother and father, and we all have to go to the grocery store at certain times throughout the week, pull our money together, and buy food. There are only small windows of opportunity to when we can all get together and do this because all of our schedules change every week. Now my brother is the typical INTJ 5 w 6 SP/SO and rarely communicates. This wouldn't really be a problem, but often times he will just go for a brisk jog or walk up to the corner store, when we had all previously agreed to go to the store at that certain time. We then wait, and wait for his arrival but he comes home like 2 hours later, and it's then too late to go to the store. We then have to eat out the next few days and spend a lot more money than we would have if had gone to the store in the first place.
Something similar to an appropriate response: That sucks, I can see where the communication barrier is.
I totally side with your INTJ brother. I think this is Fi talking.
Apparently you must be an Fe type if you can't even go to the fucking store without a goddamn group. Be self-sufficient for the love of Christ. Stop blaming your brother for your own lack of independence and initiative.
Unnecessary response. ^^ Great One did not ask you for your advice.
You giving advice, is
definately an indicator that you're an IXFP.
[MENTION=10496]skylights[/MENTION], that's funny I love to shop alone, and will even say things to people like yeah Ill meet you back here in twenty minutes before I flee away
[MENTION=15607]The Great One[/MENTION] I have a long history of uber self sufficiency like Ill take everyones money, buy 80 dollars worth of groceries and push a fucking cart home on foot
I can also carry at least 30 dollars worth of groceries, walking, with no cart
and Im female...Ive also moved to two major cities alone twice in my life
for fucks sake take a clue from your brother and go to the store alone, or get everyone's money up front and do it without him
or do what my roommates and I do sometimes, just go to the store individually and share what you've got
I'm sorry to butt in but no one asked.
That's my Fi
But the bolded is also an Fi thing.
[MENTION=15607]The Great One[/MENTION]
I have an advanced degree in surviving during poverty, and I can reassure you that you have no excuse not to eat
go buy eggs, bread, and ramen. Or beans, rice, and oatmeal. Blaming anyone, when you are an adult who lives in the USA, for not eating for several days is insane.
You strike me as a person who needs confrontation therapy, so I could care less if you go off on me.
Buy food and don't share it with your brother. Go get food stamps. Seriously to me you sound like a dependent, blaming victim and the main person that hurts is you.
If I thought like you I'd probably be dead, or I would have lived a much less satisfying life.
If you're not a child and your parent isn't starving you you've got no excuse. There are homeless drunks with more common sense than you.
again no one asked
lol
[MENTION=15607]The Great One[/MENTION]
my sister is a speed addict who neglects her children...you can't let who your brother is define you
and if you eat just fine, then I don't see a problem other than you and your dad needing to hold your brother down and take his grocery money, for realz
or tell him he don't get to eat
Again it didn't seem like they were asking you to solve the problem
It's like I can't allow my brother not to eat. I think this is an Fi vs. Fe thing.
It is Fe. In this particular situation it was Fe wanting feedback from your brother.
Or it just you caring, even a little bit, about the communication you and your brother may have...ie him not saying "Hey bro, can't make it this time."(feedback) and you replying "Ok, so should we work out a different money situation this week?"(giving feedback, and asking feedback again) cause that's what humans do. lol. they care.
Also sounds a little e-6ish.
Yar, I'd take ENTJ over INTJ any day of the week.
ENTJ probably. I feel that they embody all that I have craved deep down throughout my life. Major potential to have power, glory, knowledge and the ability to achieve one's goals. Understandable I suppose given my aspirational Te.
There are good points to all the NT types though it's just that I would rank ENTJ at the top.
ENTJ seems to be like the Lamborghini of personality types.
I believe the ENTJ is the Ace of Spades of the MBTI.
WOOHOO, you guys!