Usehername
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Our wing system is basically this: your wing is the closest type either vertically or horizontally in the table. Your "second wing" is the type closest in the opposite direction. So if your wing is vertical, your second wing is the closest horizontal type from yours, and vice versa.
It's not really the same type of thing as wings in the normal enneagram system. It just shows the grey in each of the variables. With both wings, you can deduce the order of preference in each variable.
Thank you!
As a 5, your wings have to be 1, 3, 4, or 9. Determining which of those four your primary and secondary wing are all depends on what your secondary preferences are. If you aren't sure, it should be fairly easy to figure out what your stacking is.
Alright, from what I understand so far:
This is my preference:
Avoidant > Pursuing = Anticipating
Suppressive > Controlling > Turbulent
Intimate > Preservational > Social
I'm pretty sure there should be no "=" sign there... in theory...
Do I just go read the other types and guess from here?