Dancing_Queen
New member
- Joined
- Jul 18, 2013
- Messages
- 128
- MBTI Type
- ENTJ
- Enneagram
- 8w7
- Instinctual Variant
- sx/so
"Also, it was YOU who posted a thread about intimidation, and your original post makes it very clear you find nothing wrong with that, in your own words:"
uh no, i expressed it that way because it was my mood. its a whole different thing what i think and what i express. besides, what i think constantly changes, as i gain new information from others, so thats it of me not being open to advice.
"You yourself admit it. You don't trust I'm here to help, so you assume I'm here to berate you or something."
no, i think everyone has always good motives, no matter how messed up they are. its more of an emotional thing, like if someone helps me now, i open up my wounds, and disappears next moment. what if i wasnt prepared for that? i need some kind of back up plan. depending on one card is too dangerous, as the popular saying goes.. (im reassesing my personal values, and i think its helping. im moving from being self sacrificing to selfish, so i could actually take care of myself.)
and on the four thing: i think im not really 4w3, its just that im stuck in my 4w3 fix, instead of being whoever i really am.
So you don't always say what you mean and mean what you say? I can understand that.
I'm no specialist so I try to refrain from telling people they are mistyped, but I had in mind you weren't really an Ennegram 4 based on your last posts.
Do you have any idea of your actual type?