Socionics - Am I SEI, IEI or other?

[kittendioxide]

I am fairly sure on Fe & Ti use so i’ll try to keep this brief.

-I am someone who enjoys cooking food & eating a lot. I tend to overeat, can’t really imagine going hungry for a super long time and don’t forget to eat, so I do fit the VI profile of SEI of a “round” person. I also like internally cozy vibes, feelings of warmth, but don’t care much for organising my physical environment to bring me those feelings.
-I have an optimistic vision for my own future, it has never been something that has scared me and I’ve never been anxious about it. I like to help others think of their own future visions and ponder about how the world will look in the distant future.
-I have never been able to be present and focused on the world around me, no matter how hard i try, even if im not thinking of anything I still can’t focus on the external word and find it boring to do so- have been criticised for being in my own head too much my entire life.
-Im bad at physical things, hand-eye-coordination, catching a ball, reaction times, walking straight etc. As a result Im very clumsy and always bump into things and end up injuring myself.
-I enjoy discussions about concepts and theories about society and the world and instigate them & when I try to work out the meaning behind art I always naturally think of the big overall message the artist was communicating. Im attracted to imagery of death, generally dark things- I like feeling afraid, not in a shallow way like jumpscares but genuinely uncomfortable. I like my own art to have a personal meaning and obvious or cliche meanings annoy me, but I don’t look for the meaning in everything or think/talk in metaphors.
-I have a tendency to believe Im always right and can be a little mean in a joking way to people who know me better. I have desire for power, purpose, making an impact. I am not comfortable just enjoying life without making an impact, but I do desire freedom.
-I am not super “go with the flow”, I like having a rough plan and find it fun to think of that plan but I am terrible at enacting it. I like to “lead” people in social groups, lead them towards the best future for them or to achieve a goal I have in mind.
-I often daydream about what if scenarios that other people laugh at when I tell them about it

 

[halaface]

What about IEI enneagram 9 ?

 

[halaface]

Not sure though

Edit : I'm sure now

 

[halaface]

I can see valued Se with a good Ne compared to SEI's one

" I have desire for power, purpose, making an impact "

that's Se valued , not unvalued


I have never been able to be present and focused on the world around me, no matter how hard i try


Then you are Not a Si user , Si is about living in the moment , and what you said doesn't fit with Si as a 4D function

 

[halaface]

" -I have an optimistic vision for my own future, it has never been something that has scared me and I’ve never been anxious about it "

" I like to help others think of their own future visions and ponder about how the world will look in the distant future "

All of that screams Ni

I am not comfortable just enjoying life without making an impact, but I do desire freedom.

Ni again , SEI wants to enjoy life , as a alpha quadra they want to live a simple life ( I know many alpha quadra people and all of them seek small things compared to Beta and Gamma quadra )

 

[halaface]

I can't understand SEI thing here

 

[kittendioxide]

I can't understand SEI thing here

Thanks! this helps to narrow it down. I was typed SEI by someone else for some qualities like I said about cooking being a hobby of mine and good vibes. I also have some Ne seeking dreams like a dream to travel and learn new languages. Im also not really desperate for power it’s just something I’ve always kind of desired, but not in its traditional sense. I’d be a shitty big business CEO for example and wouldn’t care for it much - but power in social spheres is appealing to me. I am not sure exactly what I seek- but I do know that I have a purpose to find on this earth.

What about IEI enneagram 9 ?

Enneagram 9 is possible! Im not too sure on my enneagram yet because im not in the healthiest state. I’ve spoken to a few people on forums who mostly agree that I have 9 in my tritype at least. A lot of people type me as 6w7 or 4 too. After looking into it 4 didn’t fit very well at all, but 3w2 or something like that could work.

 

[CertainlySkeptic]

IEI