I have a bad habit of taking offense to being misunderstood, which probably derails a lot of relationships, no matter the level of relationship desired. This is only compounded by the fact that I'm probably one of the most misunderstood individuals on the face of the planet, hence all the X's in my MBTI type.
In other words, I just end up either scaring people off, or inviting them too close without ever meaning to. When it happens, I try to rectify the situation with further communication, which just ends up digging the hole even deeper. Eventually, I'll just come out and say "this is who I am, and this is what I want", but then everyone starts looking for small print and hidden meaning, cause it's usually there in what I say, so when I speak plainly, it gets scrambled and dissected into something else.
A withdrawal into extreme introverted behavior can sometimes occur as a result. My way of avoiding the social shackles I tend to create in my extreme extroverted phases. Every once in a while, someone manages to survive this roller coaster ride, and then I have a true friend, acquaintance, whatever...
Or, maybe I'm just over thinking all this
Edit: Oh, and I chose "I see dead people" because it seemed to be the "cool people" option so often required over on INTPc for anyone to make a choice. I figured I'd try on the "cool people" option and see how it fit.