i figured i often read people too well, i mean, it's bad for me. because i usually see their deepest motives, some that they want to hide from themselves also, or some deepest issues that they avoid, like we all avoid them, i just cant stop it, i cant stop seeing through people... and then often i miss their beauty because i see them in negative light. not that it changes my perception of them, but i see their pain better than happiness, often.
like with one Ennegram 3 girl I know... I see through her. she's not conscience about many stuff and issues, but I see them... this is why i cant talk with her for real... bc we keep missing each other points... bc like we are on different levels, stages in our lives, maybe?
... anyway.. i've been also guiltyy for not reading people well at all, i think this is common with NFs, too much reading into things so often we even miss point completely....