lookoutbelow84093
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- Apr 15, 2008
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- INFP
Im a male INFP and was recently involved with a female ISFP (I think) and im really frustrated and confused.
I started dating her from work and it was a little awkward at first, but I feel like we quickly warmed up to each other, and really have similiar goals and feelings about life. We talked here and there but given our schedules we only saw each other once a week outside of work and once or twice a week at work. We had ups and downs and a few misunderstangs of communication but overall I felt that, although somewhat distant, things were going fairly well. We would often just hang out and watch a movie then cuddle and she would fall asleep in my arms. At work she would sometimes kiss me or create a 10second situation where we were alone to rub my back. We had a few miscommunications which was frustrating, but after a while she said I would start to over-analyze things. This can definitely be true, but in all honesty I didnt feel like it was a real problem.
Yesterday I finally got her to tell me that our miscommunications were significant to her, and she "wanted to take a little break." I am frustarted because I thought we had real potential, and I finally seem to get what she is saying. Does "take a break" and "im afraid of hurting you" mean she wants me to leave permanantly? Sure sounds like it to me, but apparently im not as good at reading her as I thought
I started dating her from work and it was a little awkward at first, but I feel like we quickly warmed up to each other, and really have similiar goals and feelings about life. We talked here and there but given our schedules we only saw each other once a week outside of work and once or twice a week at work. We had ups and downs and a few misunderstangs of communication but overall I felt that, although somewhat distant, things were going fairly well. We would often just hang out and watch a movie then cuddle and she would fall asleep in my arms. At work she would sometimes kiss me or create a 10second situation where we were alone to rub my back. We had a few miscommunications which was frustrating, but after a while she said I would start to over-analyze things. This can definitely be true, but in all honesty I didnt feel like it was a real problem.
Yesterday I finally got her to tell me that our miscommunications were significant to her, and she "wanted to take a little break." I am frustarted because I thought we had real potential, and I finally seem to get what she is saying. Does "take a break" and "im afraid of hurting you" mean she wants me to leave permanantly? Sure sounds like it to me, but apparently im not as good at reading her as I thought