But we're the nicest, most caring fascists you'll ever meet!
I already told you. I'm not really sure why I feel this way. It's probably something totally irrational.
edit: [MENTION=13954]Spurgeon[/MENTION], posted this after you posted. I don't want to egg you on. But I am hoping you decide to post it later.
Update:
I'm slowly but surely working on this theory about INFJs/INTJs.
Unfortunately, I'm having a lot of trouble articulating it (or more specifically, finding the time to think about it in depth).
Plus, my research has led me to the conclusion that I'm actually an INTJ myself! :horor:
I'm not sure how I missed this, but people who know me are not surprised in the least. My wife especially concurs.
I would definitely walk away. I might THINK horrible, nasty, rotten things to do to you, but I'm not likely to carry them out. I would feel too much guilt.I can see the part about giving lots of latititude before dropping the axe. But I'm not sure I believe the part about walking away.
Now I'm REALLY curious. You're the devil!
ME TOO!
we must tackle romp Spurgeon and force him to tell his infj secrets
And BTW, I'm curious about your wacky theory, too.
Introverted intuition as the main function
Prophets, visionaries and psychics are common among people of this type. They live in the rarified atmosphere of visions of the future, and in so doing are perfectly capable of ruthlessly trampling over reality and tradition…..
……Another leader, Adolf Hitler, led his people to their downfall because he was overwhelmed by the breakthrough of extroverted sensation as inferior function.
As an inferior function, sensation is archaic and instinctual. It tends toward excessiveness, being invoked exclusively with sensual impressions, which can lead to compulsive ties and sensations. The introverted intuitive, as a result of his inferior extroverted sensation, has a negative relationship to reality, and hence often makes himself extremely unpopular. The reverse side of this is that he himself hates given facts, or at least holds them in contempt. This can manifest itself in the “constructing†of special enemies, such as the Freemasons, the jews, the Jesuits or the Blacks.
Yeah, I admit we might cast you out of the camp forever. But only if you've showed again and again that you're selfish, untrustworthy, mean, hurtful, etc, and we've given you the benefit of the doubt a million times. Or if there is absolutely no good reason to keep you in our lives - when it would only do us harm. However, I think we're unlikely to destroy you.
Basically, if you don't act like an ass with an INFJ, don't screw us over, don't completely take us for granted and use and abuse us, you will be absolutely fine and you will have a very loyal and low-maintenance friend.
But I'm thinking you must have had some bad experiences with real or supposed INFJs. (Entirely possible, we are not saints. We're not Hitler either!)
We don't drop axes. We slam doors. Haven't you heard?