Hi
I was wondering if any INFJ's can help me out, I met this girl on Tinder an INFJ and we got talking and we ended up having alot in common we agreed on meeting for dinner and hit it off really well, she seemed to get me, it was almost like a magnetic pull towards her, the thing is that I lied to her, I put a fake name and age on my tinder profile partly because I don't trust my real name or details being on there, I ended up telling her the truth last night and she texted me this morning saying that there is nothing I can say and that she never wants to speak to me again, I didn't put fake details on there to manipulate anyone and I'm definately not a person that can lie I just put them on there for my personal safety.
I feel really bad for not telling her sooner but my anxiety got the better of me, I know now I've lost her trust but she was really one of the few ppl that I've connected with.
I just want to know from other INFJ'S if I should leave her alone and if it's a doorslam or if I should try and talk to her?
Any help would be appreciated
I was wondering if any INFJ's can help me out, I met this girl on Tinder an INFJ and we got talking and we ended up having alot in common we agreed on meeting for dinner and hit it off really well, she seemed to get me, it was almost like a magnetic pull towards her, the thing is that I lied to her, I put a fake name and age on my tinder profile partly because I don't trust my real name or details being on there, I ended up telling her the truth last night and she texted me this morning saying that there is nothing I can say and that she never wants to speak to me again, I didn't put fake details on there to manipulate anyone and I'm definately not a person that can lie I just put them on there for my personal safety.
I feel really bad for not telling her sooner but my anxiety got the better of me, I know now I've lost her trust but she was really one of the few ppl that I've connected with.
I just want to know from other INFJ'S if I should leave her alone and if it's a doorslam or if I should try and talk to her?
Any help would be appreciated